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Are orgasms necessary

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Hell fucking yes!!

Excuse my language, but YES!!!

Now men, just imagine for one second that every time you had sex you never ejaculated.

Well that is what it feels like to a woman who does not reach orgasm.

Exactly! Now can you fellas this what I am talking about.

I do not apologize for believing that EVERYONE deserves to have orgasms.

Don’t get me wrong stimulating the clitoris with toys can be satisfying but what about those days you just want intercourse.  

Sex is boring without the big “O”, in my opinion.

Let me explain why, I feel the way I do.

For years, I thought something was wrong with me medically, because at the time I had only orgasmed one time since becoming sexually active. There had been a twenty-year gap since I had a vaginal orgasm.

I constantly asked myself what was the problem. I went as far as watching documentaries and reading books on the topic to educate myself.

Did you know that 10% – 15% of women have never experienced an orgasm and about one half of women are frustrated with how often they one?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lPWwMG-ikuo

MedlinePlus says “that when women are dissatisfied with their partner, it then becomes a routine task that lacks importance”.

I am sure it does, who wants to be pounded out and receive no satisfaction. Ladies don’t you all go raising your hands all at once. If you do, hey that is your prerogative. I am certain that the majority of us women are in agreement when we say we want satisfying sex with our partners.

Did you know that the lack of orgasms is a real disorder?

It is called Anorgasmia; it occurs when a person cannot or has trouble reaching orgasms when sexually aroused.

There are several factors outside of major health problems that can contribute to a woman not having orgasm.  For example, boredom, abuse, embarrassment, and depression just to name a few.

Some major health issues that women suffer from will cause problems with having orgasms like endometriosis, multiple sclerosis, diabetic nerve damage, and vaginal dryness (This belongs in a post by itself…lol).

I even discovered that there are medicines that cause this problem.

How sad is that?   

Good thing is there is treatment for this disorder.

My advice, find you a new partner!

But if you are really in love, you can try communicating your wants and needs, sexual counseling, and/or Kegel exercises.

Bottom line is, “Women deserve to be satisfied everytime too”!!!